Discernment in Relationships
Hello and welcome to the DIY Affiliate and Collective Soul Journey, where I talk about the Twin Flame/Soulmate Experience and the many lessons we are all learning in our quest for sacred knowledge and a powerful evolution from 3D to the 4D inner reality to the heart-centred consciousness of 5D, of unlimited thinking and living.
If you are not familiar with the word discernment, here is the explanation.
The word “discernment” means the ability to make good decisions and sound judgments. It involves noticing differences and understanding their significance, whether in relation to people, ideas, or situations.
Discernment is linked to wisdom and helps you solve complicated problems. It requires clear thinking as well as intuition or empathy. This skill enables us to make choices that align with our values and foster a deeper understanding of ourselves and others. Developing discernment is essential for personal growth because it increases your awareness of yourself and the world around you. Discernment is also about living in the present moment, and I did a story you can read here
The Present Moment
A Journey of Connection and Self-Discovery
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Both the journey with a twin or a soulmate is not without its challenges; there are moments and lessons that, if given the choice, many of us would prefer to avoid.
When we examine the nuances of these experiences, we highlight how they can lead to profound personal growth and transformation, which is a significant aspect of our shared journey.
There will be trials along the way. In each trial, we face alongside our twin or soulmate, though sometimes painful, we ultimately gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and the nature of empathy, compassion, and unconditional love.
Difficult moments are a significant part of any relationship, especially between twins or soulmates. These tough times can come from personal issues, misunderstandings, or outside stress. Facing these challenges together is essential because it helps us, twins or soulmates, grow closer. Working through problems helps improve communication and builds empathy.
Facing these challenges together is essential because it helps us grow closer.
Healing comes from surviving through the hard times together and overcoming each unique obstacle, which helps us discover each other’s strengths and weaknesses and overcome adversity.
Ever hear the expression “walk a mile in someone else’s shoes
To walk in the shoes of your Twin or Soulmate through the trials strengthens the partnerships, making the connection more resilient and creating a solid foundation
But more importantly, we are both evolving and growing at our own pace.
The Key is to express our feelings openly, without creating misunderstandings, and to share the honest truth with nothing hidden between us.
Our journey requires us to balance our individual goals with our shared aspirations, which can create tension at times, but also fosters patience, endurance, and strength in overcoming our own ego mind.
Our different ways of handling stress can clash, making it challenging for us to communicate effectively.
The Key is to try to flow with the energy of compassion and empathy when handling stressful moments.
We all face moments where our past experiences of trauma shape our reactions, causing conflict in our connections.
The Key is to support each other during these challenging times, even when we are separated. We should not let the lower-level emotions of jealousy, envy, or anger cloud our judgment, and we should not act impulsively, only to regret it the next day.
Our desire for independence can sometimes conflict with our need for closeness, creating powerful dynamics we must navigate. We need to work on trusting each other completely, as past insecurities occasionally resurface.
Our differing perspectives on life decisions can lead to disagreements that test our bond. We occasionally struggle to prioritize our relationship amidst our busy lives, which can lead to feelings of neglect.
Our connection can be so intense that we struggle to maintain personal boundaries, leading to codependency challenges.
The Key is to take a step back and pause, look at your reactions through the retrospective eye of your partner, and see what they see and feel what they feel without putting your personal defensive spin on it to make yourself feel better.
Through my own personal experience, we can overcome our challenges using discernment, sacred knowledge, and unconditional love and acceptance.
The Key takeaway is to exercise our discernment by thinking, not only looking from the inside out, but also looking outside in before acting impulsively. This helps us respond to each other with a focused intention rather than reacting impulsively. By taking a pause, we can gain clarity and better understand each other’s perspectives.
We can seek sacred knowledge by exploring resources together, such as guided meditations, books, workshops, or engaging in discussions with other like-minded individuals. This shared learning experience can deepen our understanding of each other and the dynamics of our relationship, allowing us to grow together.
The Key is unconditional love and acceptance, which creates a safe space for open and honest communication by allowing us to express our feelings and concerns without judgment. By actively validating and listening to each other’s emotions, we strengthen our bond.
